Episode 106 - Katey D
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Podcast Episode
Katey D.’s Funeral Music Playlist
Crafting the Soundtrack of Life: A Journey Through “Your Funeral Music”
In this heartfelt episode of Your Funeral Music, guest Katey D. shared a deeply personal and eclectic playlist, offering glimpses into her life, values, and aspirations through the power of music. Hosted by Michael Venske, this reflective and thought-provoking session blended anecdotes, memories, and melodies to explore the ultimate question: What songs would define your final farewell?
Ellie Goulding’s Cover of “Your Song” – A Beautiful Love Letter
Elton John and Bernie Taupin’s timeless classic Your Song took on new life in Ellie Goulding’s ethereal cover, which Katey D. described as her love letter to friends and family. Goulding’s distinct sound brought a fresh perspective to this iconic piece, turning it into a heartfelt dedication to those she holds dear. Katey emphasized the song’s simplicity and beauty, highlighting how it conveys a profound message of love and connection.
Coldplay’s “Yellow” – A Message from the Stars
Coldplay’s breakout hit Yellow carried a deeply spiritual resonance for Katey. She recounted a transformative moment from her early 20s while caregiving for a young man. During a night drive in Florida, the song played, and its lyrics, “Look how the stars, look how they shine for you,” spoke to her as a metaphor for divine love. For Katey, Yellow became an anthem of universal care, reminding her of the beauty and purpose in life’s simple yet profound connections.
“Rainbow Connection” – A Lullaby for Dreamers
From The Muppet Movie to a modern indie rendition by Trespassers William, Rainbow Connection has been a source of inspiration for generations. Katey shared how she sang this tender song to her daughter as a lullaby, despite playfully admitting her own lack of singing talent. She interpreted the lyrics as a call to action for creatives and dreamers, urging them to stay connected and pursue their unique paths toward fulfillment.
“Joyful, Joyful” – A Celebration of Resilience
The Sister Act 2 rendition of Joyful, Joyful offered a vibrant and uplifting moment in Katey’s playlist. She fondly recalled learning sign language for the song with a friend and attending a themed drag brunch, complete with Bottomless Mimosas. This high-energy piece symbolizes resilience, community, and joy—qualities Katey hopes to embody and share with others.
Joss Stone’s “Free Me” – A Protest Against Life’s Restraints
Joss Stone’s Free Me served as Katey’s anthem of liberation. The song, originally a protest against the constraints of the music industry, resonated with her as a metaphor for breaking free from worldly limitations. For Katey, the idea of the afterlife represents freedom from physical and emotional struggles, offering a sense of peace and release.
Jill Scott’s “Slide” – Funky Reflections on the Afterlife
To close her playlist, Katey chose Jill Scott’s Slide, a funky and vibrant collaboration with jazz trombonist Jeff Bradshaw. With its playful lyrics and infectious groove, the song perfectly encapsulates her hope for the afterlife: a celebration of individuality and joy. Katey envisioned walking into the next realm with people exclaiming, “Who that girl and how she gets so funky?”—a testament to living authentically and boldly.
A Closing Note: Katey D.’s Farewell Wisdom
As the episode drew to a close, Katey reflected on her vision for her “end of life retirement party.” Her final wish? To inspire loved ones to embrace their true selves, foster meaningful connections, and practice kindness. Her words were a poignant reminder of life’s fleeting yet precious nature, encouraging everyone to leave behind a legacy of love and authenticity.
Your Funeral Music continues to delve into the intimate and universal power of music, reminding us of its unique ability to capture the essence of our lives. This week’s episode with Katey D. was a testament to how melodies can speak for our souls, connecting us to others and the world around us. Tune in next week for another journey through life’s most meaningful moments, set to music.
